Mediation is a much misunderstood term, it is not about reconciliation. Mediation is a process which helps you to reach agreement about arrangements for money, property and children when you separate. These issues are discussed in confidence, in the presence of a trained independent Mediator who helps you consider all the options and explore ways of reaching agreement.
There are many benefits to the mediation route. It is quicker and less expensive than going to Court. It is also less stressful and aims to help couples to communicate and co-operate to reach their own agreement.
The growth of mediation has helped to prevent many couples from going through the expense and the emotional trauma of lengthy court proceedings.
Who is it for?
- A separating couple, whether married or not
- A couple who are already separated but who need to resolve arrangements over children or finances
- Step-parents, grandparents or other family members who want to agree child-care and access issues
What does mediation cover?
- The terms of separation or divorce
- Care and visiting arrangements for children
- Financial arrangements for couples and their children
- Sharing or dividing of the family home and other property
How does mediation work?
Mediation involves a series of “round the table” meetings with the Mediator, who enables you to have open and honest discussions. The Mediator’s role is to ensure that any proposals are realistic and helps you to reach a consensus.
Once an agreement has been reached, the Mediator will summarise your proposals and the financial information on which these are based. Your solicitors can then translate the proposals into a legally binding agreement.
The number and cost of sessions
The number of sessions can vary depending on what issues need to be resolved. However on average 2 - 3 sessions are needed for cases involving children and 4 - 5 for cases involving property and finance as well.
Charges are payable at each session. Public Funding (Legal Aid) may be available for one or both parties.
For more information please contact Catherine Vickerman
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